{"id":3496,"date":"2022-10-06T09:11:55","date_gmt":"2022-10-06T07:11:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/?p=3496"},"modified":"2025-12-20T12:17:35","modified_gmt":"2025-12-20T11:17:35","slug":"la-famille","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/2022\/10\/06\/la-famille\/","title":{"rendered":"La famille"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le sujet est vaste et nous nous contenterons aujourd&#8217;hui d&#8217;y trouver un lien avec les souvenirs. C&#8217;est par le prisme du patrimoine \u00e9motionnel que nous voyageons sur ce blog. La famille est une brique tr\u00e8s importante dans la construction des souvenirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"3510\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/stephanie-marle-photographe77-enfant-famille-generation-2230.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3510\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/stephanie-marle-photographe77-enfant-famille-generation-2230.jpeg 1000w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/stephanie-marle-photographe77-enfant-famille-generation-2230-293x300.jpeg 293w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/stephanie-marle-photographe77-enfant-famille-generation-2230-768x786.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/stephanie-marle-photographe77-enfant-famille-generation-2230-450x461.jpeg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/stephanie-marle-photographe77-enfant-famille-generation-2230-586x600.jpeg 586w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : St\u00e9phanie Marle Photographe<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" data-id=\"3508\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3508\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800.jpeg 1200w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800-450x300.jpeg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp_w1200_h800-900x600.jpeg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : portrait-de-famille-photographe-lyonpp<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" data-id=\"3507\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/photographe-famille-Paris-34.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/photographe-famille-Paris-34.jpeg 900w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/photographe-famille-Paris-34-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/photographe-famille-Paris-34-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/photographe-famille-Paris-34-450x300.jpeg 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : photographe-famille-Paris-34<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" data-id=\"3504\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-nicole-michalou-5778899-1-900x600.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : pexels-nicole-michalou<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"870\" height=\"580\" data-id=\"3499\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Famille.jpeg\" alt=\"sourires\" class=\"wp-image-3499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Famille.jpeg 870w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Famille-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Famille-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Famille-450x300.jpeg 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 870px) 100vw, 870px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : pexels-jean-latour<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"988\" height=\"1257\" data-id=\"3514\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51.png\" alt=\"Photo de mari\u00e9s\" class=\"wp-image-3514\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51.png 988w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51-236x300.png 236w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51-805x1024.png 805w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51-768x977.png 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51-450x573.png 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Capture-de\u0301cran-2022-10-05-a\u0300-07.09.51-472x600.png 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 988px) 100vw, 988px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>L&#8217;affaire est complexe<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avant d&#8217;\u00e9crire ces quelques lignes, vous vous doutez bien que je me suis pench\u00e9 sur le sujet. Ce n&#8217;est pas un sujet, c&#8217;est un monde ! La famille a travers\u00e9 le temps puisqu&#8217;\u00e0 l&#8217;origine du monde, la notion de groupe existait d\u00e9j\u00e0, puis l&#8217;antiquit\u00e9 o\u00f9 les penseurs ont d\u00e9battu largement sur le sujet jusqu&#8217;\u00e0 sa forme contemporaine qui ne cesse d&#8217;\u00e9voluer avec les nouveaux formats familiaux. En parall\u00e8le du temps, elle est \u00e9tudi\u00e9e par tous les courants de pens\u00e9es. Les psychologues s&#8217;en donnent \u00e0 c\u0153ur joie, les historiens, les sociologues, les philosophes, etc. Tous les secteurs de la pens\u00e9e ont un avis sur la famille. Il semble que cela soit LE sujet commun \u00e0 toute l&#8217;humanit\u00e9 depuis toujours. La famille est une exp\u00e9rience commune \u00e0 toute l&#8217;humanit\u00e9.<br>On marque donc un premier point : c&#8217;est une source in\u00e9puisable de souvenirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Quelle est la place de la famille dans nos souvenirs ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00eame si on fabrique des souvenirs en continu, l&#8217;espace familial est l&#8217;un des plus gros g\u00e9n\u00e9rateurs de souvenirs. Et en fait, c&#8217;est encore plus complexe que cela. La famille est pr\u00e9sente ind\u00e9finiment dans nos vies et ce qu&#8217;elle g\u00e9n\u00e8re, en termes de souvenirs est une sorte d&#8217;onde sinuso\u00efdale. La famille a plusieurs niveaux de lecture en \u00e9tant plus ou moins pr\u00e9sente dans nos vies. Elle varie entre une pr\u00e9sence tr\u00e8s concr\u00e8te puis s&#8217;efface. Elle ondule dans nos vies mais jamais, elle ne dispara\u00eet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Une chercheuse de l&#8217;universit\u00e9 d&#8217;Angers, Claudine Combier, a travaill\u00e9 sur les photographies au sein des familles. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.decitre.fr\/livres\/photographies-de-familles-contemporaines-9782753580558.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-sm-color-primary-color\">L&#8217;ouvrage est tr\u00e8s int\u00e9ressant<\/mark><\/a>. Un article est paru avec son coll\u00e8gue, Emmanuel Graton, dans <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ouest-france.fr\/pays-de-la-loire\/angers-49000\/pour-ces-chercheurs-la-famille-c-est-dans-la-boite-5311662\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-sm-color-primary-color\">Ouest France<\/mark><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"La famille\" class=\"wp-image-3501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-cottonbro-6074061-900x600.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em><sup>Photo : pexels-cottonbro-6074061<\/sup><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La famille en 3 phases<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voici une proposition pour placer les souvenirs au sein d&#8217;une famille :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Phase 1<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le premier niveau de cr\u00e9ation de souvenirs est puissant :  c&#8217;est notre enfance. \u00c0 cette \u00e9tape, nous ne sommes pas libres des actions que nous allons vivre. Nous fabriquons des souvenirs mais l&#8217;environnement de cr\u00e9ation ne d\u00e9pend pas de nous. <em>Je vais avoir des souvenirs de musique parce que mes parents m&#8217;ont orient\u00e9 vers la musique.<\/em> Au c\u0153ur de l&#8217;activit\u00e9, je fabrique mes propres souvenirs et je reste libre de les classer par importance. Si j\u2019avais fait du rugby ou du th\u00e9\u00e2tre cela aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 pareil, les souvenirs auraient \u00e9t\u00e9 construits par les propositions de contenus impos\u00e9s par les parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La structure familiale guide les enfants dans une vie faite de r\u00e8gles et d&#8217;exp\u00e9riences. Les souvenirs d&#8217;enfance sont g\u00e9n\u00e9r\u00e9s par cette r\u00e9glementation. L&#8217;enfant grandit comme son d\u00e9sir de libert\u00e9. L&#8217;opposition au mod\u00e8le familial appara\u00eet et la porte de l&#8217;adolescence s&#8217;\u00e9quipe d&#8217;un verrou. Ces jeunes personnes, encore dans la cellule familiale, r\u00eavent de libert\u00e9 et commencent s\u00e9rieusement \u00e0 penser \u00e0 quitter le nid. Appara\u00eet alors une autre forme de souvenirs qui d\u00e9pendent enfin d&#8217;eux. <em>Je peux faire ce que je veux sans en parler \u00e0 mes parents, je vais g\u00e9n\u00e9rer alors mes premiers souvenirs intimes et personnels.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Phase 2<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le deuxi\u00e8me stade est justement cette p\u00e9riode. Vous voici face \u00e0 vos propres souvenirs. Rappelez-vous cette p\u00e9riode de la vie absolument fabuleuse o\u00f9 vous ne d\u00e9pendiez plus de vos parents ! Cette p\u00e9riode de grande libert\u00e9 o\u00f9 vous n&#8217;aviez pas encore votre propre structure familiale. C&#8217;est \u00e0 ce moment de la vie o\u00f9 la famille dispara\u00eet un peu des radars. Elle est l\u00e0 sous forme de carte et vous n&#8217;avez plus besoin de guide. C&#8217;est une p\u00e9riode excitante mais d\u00e9licate car votre vie d\u00e9pend de vos choix et il ne faut pas se tromper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On a tous un souvenir de ce type pendant cette p\u00e9riode, refl\u00e9tant une grande libert\u00e9. Il est bon d&#8217;ailleurs de garder en t\u00eate ces moments lumineux car ils sont utiles lorsque la vie nous ram\u00e8ne de l&#8217;ombre. Les souvenirs de cette p\u00e9riode sont li\u00e9s \u00e0 l&#8217;exp\u00e9rience, voire les exc\u00e8s. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/2022\/09\/12\/faire-trop-d-exces\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-sm-color-primary-color\">On en parle d&#8217;ailleurs dans cet article.<\/mark><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Phase 3<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La troisi\u00e8me phase est le retour de la famille dans votre vie mais sous une autre forme puisque vous allez la piloter ! La nature est ainsi faite et arrive le temps o\u00f9 l&#8217;on est pr\u00eat \u00e0 construire sa propre structure familiale. On se retrouve alors dans cette posture incroyable qui est de porter l&#8217;autorit\u00e9 et d&#8217;imposer les r\u00e8gles \u00e0 nos enfants. On est m\u00eame capable d&#8217;orienter nos enfants vers nos envies frustr\u00e9es de notre enfance&#8230; Le nombre de papa qui se voit footballeurs \u00e0 travers leurs enfants&#8230; On est \u00e0 l&#8217;origine des premiers souvenirs de nos enfants comme nos parents jadis. La seule chose qui change, c&#8217;est l&#8217;environnement et le monde tel qu&#8217;il est au moment de nouveau cycle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>La famille est donc un espace de structuration du souvenir. Elle ne les g\u00e9n\u00e8re pas, elle les propose.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">La famille g\u00e9n\u00e8re donc trois types de souvenirs.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" data-id=\"3503\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-juan-salamanca-61129-900x600.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : pexels-juan-salamanca<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" data-id=\"3506\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-sebastian-voortman-214574-900x600.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : pexels-sebastian-voortman<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"2024\" data-id=\"3500\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"La famille\" class=\"wp-image-3500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-300x237.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-1024x810.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-768x607.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-1536x1215.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-2048x1620.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-450x356.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.toodays.me\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna-1128318-759x600.jpg 759w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo : pexels-agung-pandit-wiguna<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ceux que nos parents veulent qu&#8217;on vive, ce que nous vivons librement, ceux qu&#8217;on invite \u00e0 vivre..\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Faites ce petit exercice de tri. Arrivez-vous \u00e0 retrouver des souvenirs des trois p\u00e9riodes ? C&#8217;est important de rechercher ces souvenirs, surtout ceux impos\u00e9s car ils vous permettent ensuite de voir si vos souvenirs libres existent vraiment et si ceux que vous imposez \u00e0 vos enfants ont \u00e9t\u00e9 enrichis de cette libert\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Enfin, il existe un dernier moment : c&#8217;est celui o\u00f9 nos enfants ont cr\u00e9\u00e9 leur propre cellule et o\u00f9 il n&#8217;existe pas encore de petits-enfants. L\u00e0 aussi, on retrouve la libert\u00e9 du souvenir. On parle d&#8217;une deuxi\u00e8me jeunesse et ce n\u2019est pas faux.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La famille est donc un espace de structuration du souvenir. 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